tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3036457339062709853.post4930654683555626077..comments2023-06-14T04:25:23.048-07:00Comments on JD...Actually: ClutterJD-Maybehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01683866849372870696noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3036457339062709853.post-59412220422412754232009-10-12T07:59:50.910-07:002009-10-12T07:59:50.910-07:00We are very much alike, when I was little and my p...We are very much alike, when I was little and my parents would fight I would clean the house... it brings me some kind of order and peace as well. I am married to the polar opposite of me when it comes to cleaning. There can be compromise and it can work. Accepting that I will clean something or pick something up WAY before it will ever cross his mind and he's had to accept that I vacuum, sweep and wipe down the counters like its going out of style.Nichicakeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03280509756033139693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3036457339062709853.post-17007387828572460692009-10-10T23:57:01.565-07:002009-10-10T23:57:01.565-07:00i don't have any good advice, but i use to be ...i don't have any good advice, but i use to be someone who would collect two or three of a lot of things i didn't need. then i had to move and i was so appalled by all of my belongings that i got rid of the crap and made a new rule: i can't buy something new unless the old one has been (i) used up or broken and (ii) thrown out. things are much more peaceful around the P2P house now. moral of the story: he can change, if he wants to. i hope you can help him find the motivation :)<br /><br />(wild story about your dad's ex! impressed you were able to put up with it as long as you did.)Paragon2Pieceshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16186204100704440304noreply@blogger.com